005: Relationships and Work: How I Learned Some Were Not For Me
When your gut is screaming, “This feels off,” listen.
I like to think of myself as someone with a healthy amount of self-confidence but of course there are times I have faltered and times that it has not been as high as it is now. I used to subconsciously place my worth in the hands of how many people wanted to date me and how much I’m producing (spoiler: burned out). Learn to spot changes in your behaviour, ask yourself the right questions, and apply learnings to avoid situations that are not a fit.
Host
Note
I accidentally said, “It’s easier to marry myself to the company because I’ve started doing things just for me,” but I meant to say, “It’s easier to not marry myself to the company…”
Topics Covered
- Changes in behaviour when you like someone you’re not a fit with
- Changes in behaviour when you are no longer a fit at work
- What to ask yourself when you notice changes in your behaviour
- How to take your observations and apply them to future relationships and orgs
Show Notes
- Podcast edited by Chris Enns at Lemon Productions
- The Five Whys
- Slang: Get The Bag (used it to describe successfully getting into a relationship)
- Slang: Sunday Scaries
- Slang: Shill
- Slang: Cheesed
Keep it candid,
Thuy
